What is a gentleman? There is a long list of things that makes a gentleman. But know that It takes work. And it’s totally worth it.

Being a gentleman is more than ethics, principles and standards. It’s a way of life.

When we are able to elevate our skills, talents and abilities without compromising who we are at our core, we are able to be more.

Having standards (professional, respectful, and an all-round better) is what produces that “more”.

Gentlmen’s Brawl is a series that challenges the status quo. Chivalry is not dead.

Two gentlemen, Weston Pokorny and Samuel Hatton, share their stories about why seeking to live at an elevated level of honor and respect is a better way to live.

In this episode:

  • What it means to be a gentleman
  • Is being a gentleman geeky or courageous?
  • Samuel shares about when he decided in life to embrace the way of a gentleman
  • How self-confidence is built up by holding ideals


Napoleon Hill – The Law of Success in Sixteen Lessons – #10 – Pleasing Personality & #15 Tolerance

Challenged to be a gentleman

In 2011, Samuel’s (at the time) future wife, April, called him out on him not being a gentleman. He resisted. Love won. He shares about how one action changed the course of his future, which lead to marriage.

Being a gentleman and self-confidence

People tend to create rules and guidelines that they live by, whether they know they are doing it or not. Being a gentleman allows us to embrace a code of ethics that are appreciated and welcomed by many people.

This is where living successfully and well come in. Choose to be a gentleman. But what if I’m a girl you may ask. Apply the principles of a gentleman and watch amazing things happen.


Samuel Hatton

Samuel Hatton


Samuel Hatton is the full-time marketing guy at Endsight – San Francisco Bay Area’s premium locally sourced computer technology support. He’s a multi-talented creative, natural encourager, and is full of courageous ideas.

Weston Pokorny

Weston Pokorny


Weston Pokorny is a free-lance business technology consultant. People call him when they are faced with major projects they just can't get organized around. He's a master organizer, people connector, and is full of courageous compassion.

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